or life with folks, like family or roommates on a daily basis, then you might be due for some emotional fireworks. A retrograde Venus, the planet of harmony and beauty, doesn’t help this season, so there are few things to be careful about. First, whatever you plan is likely to cost more money than you expect. Second, make no assumptions about your peeps’ goodwill. It doesn’t mean they don’t have any, but be sure your expectations match theirs without assuming it does.
Most of the year has been you pushing to be you while letting others be…well…”other.” But now is different. This season is all about getting a better appreciation of what you have as to release what (or who) doesn’t fit in your life anymore. This taps into many areas of your life: money, affairs of the heart, your possessions, extra weight, etc. You can rightly sense that there are bright new shiny opportunities coming your way, but you also know that you can’t receive anything with full hands. You can choose to have a garage/stoop sale or just give things away; you can focus on ridding yourself of debt or reshuffle your portfolio; you can summarily stop dragging the dead weight of a friend around or you can let them know clearly yet kindly that they’re a drag. You can do much if you’re willing to sacrifice a bit. But November brings home that the one thing that you can’t be is unkind.