[ADVICE] Help!<br />
Iâm in Love With a Liar!

[ADVICE] Help!
I’m in Love With a Liar!

What to do when your significant other just can't keep it real? Relationship expert Sil Lai Abrams kicks some truth

Sil Lai Abrams

by Sil Lai Abrams, May 31, 2012

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[ADVICE] Help!<br />
Iâm in Love With a Liar!

Is your lover a pathological liar?

that unless you’re prepared to become a walking/talking polygraph machine, you’re better off ending the relationship and cutting your losses.  And for the record, I do believe that a person that is committed to changing their behavior can and often does. But psychiatrists will be the first to admit that pathological lying is a behavior that isn’t easily changed.  At the end of the day, it’s up to the individual to decide what they will or won’t deal with in a relationship but in my opinion, your mental health and sense of security is simply too big a price to pay.

Sil Lai Abrams is EBONY.com’s Relationship Expert and the author of No More Drama: 9 Simple Steps to Transforming a Breakdown into a Breakthrough and a board member of the National Domestic Violence Hotline.  Follow her on Twitter: @sil_lai and connect with her on Facebook. Want Sil Lai's advice? Email SilLai@ebony.com to have your love questions answered in a future column! 

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