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Are You Sexually Compatible?
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strangers who hook up for sex. Stay in character until you both explode and get to know each other all over again. Test the waters with different things until you get back into a groove that excites you again. This fun experimentation should also bring you closer and help you work out whatever other private perversions you might be dealing with.

Whatever you do, don’t settle for being sexually unsatisfied. You’re only hurting yourself, and eventually, your resentment and discontent will hurt your relationship.

Feminista Jones is a sex-positive Black feminist, social worker and blogger from New York City. She writes about gender, race, politics, mental health and sexuality at FeministaJones.com. Follow her on Twitter at @FeministaJones.