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discipline, focus, the ability to prioritize, and a constant seeking of balance. You’ve got to be willing, however to get honest with yourself and be willing to ditch whatever ideas or behaviors that are keeping you from getting the love you need. 

Sil Lai Abrams is EBONY.com’s Relationship Expert and the author of No More Drama: 9 Simple Steps to Transforming a Breakdown into a Breakthrough and a board member of the National Domestic Violence Hotline.  Follow her on Twitter: @sil_lai and connect with her on Facebook. Want Sil Lai's advice? Email SilLai@ebony.com to have your love questions answered in a future column!