definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.” If you are having the same issue repeatedly in your intimate relationships, it’s probably time to stop focusing on what your partner is or isn’t doing and start looking at exactly how you’re contributing to the problem.
Sil Lai Abrams is EBONY.com’s Relationship Expert, author of No More Drama: 9 Simple Steps to Transforming a Breakdown into a Breakthrough and a board member of the National Domestic Violence Hotline. You can follow her on Twitter: @sil_lai and connect with her on Facebook. Want her advice? Email SilLai@ebony.com to have your love questions answered in a future column!