indication of feelings for you or about the relationship. If you’re not invited and hoped to be, let your partner know how not being invited made you feel and hear out whatever explanation is given as to why you weren’t. If it doesn’t sit well with you, you might consider making changes somewhere.
3. You better be having sex during the holiday season! This is the best time of year to cuddle up and get nasty under the covers. If it’s a long-distance situation, make that trip! There will be no confusion because your intentions have been clear from day one. If you’ve not yet had sex, the holiday season can be the perfect time to give the sensual gift of tantalizing sexual pleasure.
Feminista Jones is a sex-positive Black feminist, social worker and blogger from New York City. She writes about gender, race, politics, mental health and sexuality at FeministaJones.com. Follow her on Twitter at @FeministaJones.