Once a Cheater,<br />
Always a Cheater?
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address the core issues driving their behavior. 

Anyone who is cheating on their partner is losing the opportunity to truly know love as it’s intended. Love is meant to heal. It is meant to make us feel safe…to help us grow and evolve towards ever expanding levels of connectedness and consciousness. If we are going to truly love another, we must love ourselves enough to confront the shadows within ourselves.

Sil Lai Abrams is EBONY.com’s Relationship Expert and the author of No More Drama: 9 Simple Steps to Transforming a Breakdown into a Breakthrough and a board member of the National Domestic Violence Hotline.  Follow her on Twitter: @sil_lai and connect with her on Facebook. Want Sil Lai's advice? Email SilLai@ebony.com to have your love questions answered in a future column!