[AskShanTellem] My Man Is Looking A Mess and I'm Not Attracted to Him

[AskShanTellem] My Man Is Looking A Mess and I'm Not Attracted to Him

by Shantell E. Jamison

Dear ShanTellem, How do you tell your mate that you’re not attracted to them anymore? I don’t want to break up but… Read More

5 Steps Toward Forgiveness in Relationships

5 Steps Toward Forgiveness in Relationships

by Shantell E. Jamison

“Everyone says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until they have something to forgive.” –C.S. Lewis Forgiveness… Read More

'Am I A Gold Digger?' Woman Torn Between Provider and an Old Flame

'Am I A Gold Digger?' Woman Torn Between Provider and an Old Flame

by Shantell E. Jamison

Dear ShanTellem, I’ve been in a majority-committed relationship for five years. I am a stay-at-home mom, and the man that… Read More

Free Your Mind! 5 Keys to Ditching Emotional Baggage

Free Your Mind! 5 Keys to Ditching Emotional Baggage

by Shantell E. Jamison

“At some point, you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life.” – Sandi Lynn A… Read More

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4 Reasons to Fall in Love

by Shantell E. Jamison

"I think we're at the age where either you're going to go for love or settle for something that isn't." – Tanesha… Read More

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The Ex That Won't Quit

[AskShanTellem]
The Ex That Won't Quit

by Shantell E. Jamison

Dear ShanTellem, I have been dating a guy for close to six months now. He has a close friend (that he actually dated in the… Read More

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Love Yourself FIRST

by Josie Pickens

I began writing about love and relationships many years ago, not because I had any answers for myself or for anyone else, but because… Read More

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6 Signs You’re in a Toxic Relationship

by Shantell E. Jamison

“A bad relationship will make you feel more alone than when you were single.”—Unknown Many of us have… Read More

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Should a Husband Allow His Wife’s Side Chick?<br />

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Should a Husband Allow His Wife’s Side Chick?

by Shantell E. Jamison

Dear ShanTellem, I’ve been happily married to my husband for four years. He is VERY traditional, but he knew that I was… Read More

Do Men Actually Listen?

Do Men Actually Listen?

by Ohmare

There are plenty of men who, like myself, are guilty of occasionally not listening to our partners as they explain what co-worker… Read More

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