Love During the Mercury Retrograde

Love During the Mercury Retrograde

by Shantell E. Jamison

Whether you believe in astrology or not, there’s no debating there are times when things are just…off. No matter how effectively you execute your communication... Read More

Staying Power: 4 Ways to Last in the Bedroom

Staying Power: 4 Ways to Last in the Bedroom

by Glamazon Tyomi

The idea of the Black man being a supreme lover with uncanny stamina and a mandingo-sized member to match doesn’t always translate into real... Read More

My White Sugar Daddy

My White Sugar Daddy

by Terrence Chappell

Reactions to my relationship — I’m dating a much older, white man by the way — are like having a stable of single, opinionated aunties ready to... Read More

Want Love? Cure Your Dysfunction

Want Love? Cure Your Dysfunction

by Shantell E. Jamison

“He who knows others is wise. He who knows himself is enlightened.” – Lao Tzu I was talking to a buddy of mine who... Read More

Stop Dating Non-Black People Who Are Silent About Our Struggle

Stop Dating Non-Black People Who Are Silent About Our Struggle

by Josie Pickens

Black people are standing up and demanding to be seen, and to matter, in ways I have read about in history books, but have... Read More

The Truth About Emotionally Detached Daters

The Truth About Emotionally Detached Daters

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

Finding love is hard. Hell, dating, meeting new people, and even just amping yourself up to land in the correct mental space to entertain seeing... Read More

5 Tips for the Well-Endowed Man

5 Tips for the Well-Endowed Man

by Glamazon Tyomi

“I love my wife, but there are times when sex just isn’t comfortable because…well…I don’t fit,”  lamented a concerned husband in my inbox.  Complaints... Read More

Dear Lover: 5 Signs You Deserve Better

Dear Lover: 5 Signs You Deserve Better

by Shantell E. Jamison

Let me be the first to admit that I go above and beyond for those I love. If I decide to commit to you,... Read More

Cheating

Love Coach: When SHE Cheats

by S. Tia Brown

Most romantic dramas have the same, lazy storyline. Some beautiful woman — who has wanted nothing more in her life than to be a... Read More

No, He Does Not Have A Fear of Commitment

No, He Does Not Have A Fear of Commitment

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

In the past three weeks, I've seen one close friend and two associates – all men – break off long-term relationships with their women. For these... Read More