She Ain’t Feeling It: 5 Reasons Why She Doesn’t Want Sex

She Ain’t Feeling It: 5 Reasons Why She Doesn’t Want Sex

by Glamazon Tyomi

“She’s just not as freaky as she used to be,” he said in a letter that was filled with disappointment and disdain.  Here I... Read More

Free Your Mind! 5 Keys to Ditching Emotional Baggage

Free Your Mind! 5 Keys to Ditching Emotional Baggage

by Shantell E. Jamison

“At some point, you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life.” – Sandi Lynn A... Read More

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[CONFESSIONS] I Always Cheated on My Wife—And I Loved Her

by Team Ebony

Here is what most men will not say: The male ego is bruised by monogamy. Fidelity can be one of the hardest things on... Read More

6 Keys to Loving Someone With Depression

6 Keys to Loving Someone With Depression

by Chevonne Harris

Michelle* will never forget the first time her fiancé mentioned he was having suicidal thoughts. As they cuddled on the couch for their weekly... Read More

[Ask ShanTellem] My Girl Doesn’t Trust Me

[Ask ShanTellem] My Girl Doesn’t Trust Me

by Shantell E. Jamison

Dear ShanTellem, I’m seeing a woman that I used to date a few years back again. She has two kids and was going through... Read More

[For Men] Reconnecting With Intimacy, Breaking from Porn

[For Men] Reconnecting With Intimacy, Breaking from Porn

by Glamazon Tyomi

“Tyomi, how do I stop myself from watching porn? I feel that I’m beginning to become desensitized to the intimate touch of a woman.”... Read More

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4 Reasons to Fall in Love

by Shantell E. Jamison

"I think we're at the age where either you're going to go for love or settle for something that isn't." – Tanesha Peeples The... Read More

[AskShanTellem]
The Ex That Won’t Quit

[AskShanTellem]
The Ex That Won't Quit

by Shantell E. Jamison

Dear ShanTellem, I have been dating a guy for close to six months now. He has a close friend (that he actually dated in... Read More

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Love Yourself FIRST

by Josie Pickens

I began writing about love and relationships many years ago, not because I had any answers for myself or for anyone else, but because... Read More

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6 Signs You’re in a Toxic Relationship

by Shantell E. Jamison

“A bad relationship will make you feel more alone than when you were single.”—Unknown Many of us have been conditioned to believe love is... Read More