The Number One Reason You’re Single

The Number One Reason You’re Single

by Shantell E. Jamison

Let me say it plainly. Something’s wrong if you claim to want a relationship, but won’t take the time to evaluate and improve some... Read More

[Ladies] It’s Not YOUR Job to Make Him A Better Man

[Ladies] It’s Not YOUR Job to Make Him A Better Man

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

Several weeks ago, a video clip of a man crying at his wedding as his beautiful bride made her way down the aisle went crazy... Read More

4 Ways to Make Sex After Marriage Better

4 Ways to Make Sex After Marriage Better

by Glamazon Tyomi

“Does sex ruin marriage?” This was a question posed to me by one of my Periscope followers who was eager to know my opinion... Read More

Black Superwomen Don’t Intimidate Me, They Scare Me

Black Superwomen Don’t Intimidate Me, They Scare Me

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

"Men are just intimidated by strong women." I've heard that overly-generalized statement from far too many women throughout the course of my lifetime and, once... Read More

The Thirst is Real: 5 Signs You Look Facebook Desperate

The Thirst is Real: 5 Signs You Look Facebook Desperate

by Shantell E. Jamison

Even as someone who constantly writes about and offers advice on love, sex and relationships, I must say that I find dating in the... Read More

Summer Fun: 4 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Summer Fun: 4 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

by Glamazon Tyomi

Summertime is now here, which means summer dresses, pedicured feet, fresh cuts and clean cars will be on full display. Three months of summer... Read More

Why the Media is Lying on the State of Black Love

Why the Media is Lying on the State of Black Love

by Shantell E. Jamison

You know it. I know it, but one of the most influential, constantly accessible entities needs to be reminded. For every example of an... Read More

The Injustice of Love: Remembering Loving v. Virginia

The Injustice of Love: Remembering Loving v. Virginia

by Terrence Chappell

Historically, injustice has always had eyes for love. Whether it’s the Supreme court cases of Loving v. Virginia (1967) on interracial marriage or the... Read More

Dating While ‘Woke,’ Scan For All Signs of Hotep

Dating While ‘Woke,’ Scan For All Signs of Hotep

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

In 1998, I experienced my "woke moment." On a 5-hour flight between Toronto and Bridgetown, I found myself stuck on a plane with no in-flight movie and a dead Sony... Read More

Dear Black Men: Please Fall in Love with Who We Are

Dear Black Men: Please Fall in Love with Who We Are

by Sophia Nelson, Esq

“Love me where I am, not where you wish for me to be.” -Lincoln Anthony Blades  Love me for where I am. Truer words... Read More