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Got Trust Issues? Maybe Infidelity Isn’t the Problem

by Shantell E. Jamison

“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” – Ernest Hemingway Each month, I host an event... Read More

Why the Term ‘Dating Down’ is Irrelevant

Why the Term ‘Dating Down’ is Irrelevant

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

Dating Down: to enter into a relationship with someone with a much lower income, less material possessions, or a far lower income-earning potential. On... Read More

Dear Black People: Facebook Doesn’t Make Your Relationship Real

Dear Black People: Facebook Doesn’t Make Your Relationship Real

by Shantell E. Jamison

“A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone with no service, all you can do is play games.” – Unknown About two... Read More

Ladies: PLEASE Stop Being So Faithful Before Commitment

Ladies: PLEASE Stop Being So Faithful Before Commitment

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

When it comes to relationship advice articles, there's nothing worse than those damn, "Fifty'leven Ways Love Was Better For Our Grandparents Than It Is... Read More

5 Lessons to Learn After Losing Love

5 Lessons to Learn After Losing Love

by Shantell E. Jamison

“When you’re in a relationship with someone, it’s so much about tearing down the walls between you two that you sort of confuse what... Read More

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Stop the Mess! How to Avoid Social Media Drama in Love

by Lashieka Hunter

We’ve all witnessed it. Couples showering each other with affection on Facebook or posting sweet tweets about their significant other on anniversaries and birthdays.... Read More

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I Don’t Mind if My Woman Sleeps Around

by Shantell E. Jamison

Dear ShanTellem, I haven't slept with my live-in girlfriend in months. In the past, I believed if you weren't giving your mate something at... Read More

Dear Black Women: Don’t Fall in Love With My Potential

Dear Black Women: Don’t Fall in Love With My Potential

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

Every single day, in a world filled with social media relationship experts attempting to tackle the most complex love issues in one picture or... Read More

5 Ways You’re Sabotaging Black Love

5 Ways You’re Sabotaging Black Love

by Shantell E. Jamison

“Isn’t it heartbreaking how easily you can dedicate your life to destroying yourself?” – Unknown It’s no secret that there’s strength in numbers. But... Read More

Extended Engagements Are TRULY None of Your Business

Extended Engagements Are TRULY None of Your Business

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

If you have any type of common sense, you should know good and well that there are certain questions you never ask another couple.... Read More