Black Superwomen Don’t Intimidate Me, They Scare Me

Black Superwomen Don’t Intimidate Me, They Scare Me

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

"Men are just intimidated by strong women." I've heard that overly-generalized statement from far too many women throughout the course of my lifetime and, once... Read More

The Thirst is Real: 5 Signs You Look Facebook Desperate

The Thirst is Real: 5 Signs You Look Facebook Desperate

by Shantell E. Jamison

Even as someone who constantly writes about and offers advice on love, sex and relationships, I must say that I find dating in the... Read More

Summer Fun: 4 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Summer Fun: 4 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

by Glamazon Tyomi

Summertime is now here, which means summer dresses, pedicured feet, fresh cuts and clean cars will be on full display. Three months of summer... Read More

Why the Media is Lying on the State of Black Love

Why the Media is Lying on the State of Black Love

by Shantell E. Jamison

You know it. I know it, but one of the most influential, constantly accessible entities needs to be reminded. For every example of an... Read More

The Injustice of Love: Remembering Loving v. Virginia

The Injustice of Love: Remembering Loving v. Virginia

by Terrence Chappell

Historically, injustice has always had eyes for love. Whether it’s the Supreme court cases of Loving v. Virginia (1967) on interracial marriage or the... Read More

Dating While ‘Woke,’ Scan For All Signs of Hotep

Dating While ‘Woke,’ Scan For All Signs of Hotep

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

In 1998, I experienced my "woke moment." On a 5-hour flight between Toronto and Bridgetown, I found myself stuck on a plane with no in-flight movie and a dead Sony... Read More

Dear Black Men: Please Fall in Love with Who We Are

Dear Black Men: Please Fall in Love with Who We Are

by Sophia Nelson, Esq

“Love me where I am, not where you wish for me to be.” -Lincoln Anthony Blades  Love me for where I am. Truer words... Read More

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Got Trust Issues? Maybe Infidelity Isn’t the Problem

by Shantell E. Jamison

“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” – Ernest Hemingway Each month, I host an event... Read More

Why the Term ‘Dating Down’ is Irrelevant

Why the Term ‘Dating Down’ is Irrelevant

by Lincoln Anthony Blades

Dating Down: to enter into a relationship with someone with a much lower income, less material possessions, or a far lower income-earning potential. On... Read More

Dear Black People: Facebook Doesn’t Make Your Relationship Real

Dear Black People: Facebook Doesn’t Make Your Relationship Real

by Shantell E. Jamison

“A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone with no service, all you can do is play games.” – Unknown About two... Read More