your state, just to be on the safe side.
If you’re into watching, my advice is to stick with legal pornography, swing clubs or private intimate parties with people you know and trust. If you’re into showing off, search online for local clubs that allow you to be free, check out some nude beaches or, if you’re really feeling daring, upload pictures or videos to amateur sites online. (Just know that once you do that, you risk a level of exposure you might regret later.) Think carefully, choose wisely, but most of all, get the most pleasure you can out of these unique fetishes!
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Feminista Jones is a sex-positive Black feminist, social worker and blogger from New York City. She writes about gender, race, politics, mental health and sexuality at FeministaJones.com. Follow her on Twitter at @FeministaJones.