[TALK LIKE SEX] Tips for Lesbian Sex

[TALK LIKE SEX] Tips for Lesbian Sex

Whether you identify as lesbian, bisexual, transgender, queer, or something else, two women making love doesn’t always have to replicate heterosexual sex

Feminista Jones

by Feminista Jones, June 11, 2013

[TALK LIKE SEX] Tips for Lesbian Sex

Arykah says the key is to “get to know your partner in a different way, by concentrating on a sense other than touch.” Communication about and during sex is so important, as is making the mental connection—and that goes for people having any type of sex. Courtney advises that women not limit themselves in the bed, thinking they can’t do something because there are two women involved.

You can shop around for some new toys, add music or food to stimulate other senses, or even try some of the things women do in the girl-on-girl adult video flicks. I encourage all of the ladies out there to commit to trying at least one new position or technique the next time you find yourself intertwined with another sexy woman, and keep those toes curling!

Feminista Jones is a sex-positive Black feminist, social worker and blogger from New York City. She writes about gender, race, politics, mental health and sexuality at FeministaJones.com. Follow her on Twitter at @FeministaJones.


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