Chad, Evelyn and Blaming the Victim

Chad, Evelyn and Blaming the Victim

[OPINION] Relationship expert and anti-domestic violence activist Sil Lai Abrams takes a look at the disturbing response to the reality couple's violent incident

Sil Lai Abrams

by Sil Lai Abrams, August 14, 2012

Chad, Evelyn and Blaming the Victim

Chad Johnson and Evelyn Lozada.

Photo courtesy of Gary Miller/Getty Images

famously bellowed in the director Spike Lee’s classic film, School Daze:


Please wake up.

Sil Lai Abrams is’s Relationship Expert, author of No More Drama: 9 Simple Steps to Transforming a Breakdown into a Breakthrough and a board member of the National Domestic Violence Hotline.  You can follow her on Twitter: @sil_lai and connect with her on Facebook. Want her advice? Email to have your love questions answered in a future column!

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