Chad, Evelyn and Blaming the Victim

Chad Johnson and Evelyn Lozada.

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famously bellowed in the director Spike Lee’s classic film, School Daze:


Please wake up.

Sil Lai Abrams is’s Relationship Expert, author of No More Drama: 9 Simple Steps to Transforming a Breakdown into a Breakthrough and a board member of the National Domestic Violence Hotline.  You can follow her on Twitter: @sil_lai and connect with her on Facebook. Want her advice? Email to have your love questions answered in a future column!