We’ve all been there. We find love, fall in love, break up and for whatever reason, cannot let each other go. Do not always take your inability to move on from a person as a sign that you are meant to be together.

Some relationships are just plan toxic. Here are three signs that you are in an unhealthy relationship.

1. You don’t like each other.

True, you can love someone but not like them, but that should never …ever be the case with your significant other. What sense does it make to commit to someone that you absolutely cannot stand? Understand that the one who is right and good for you will be a joy to be around even during moments of tension. If you do not like the person you are with, chances are you are together for a reason other than love.

2. Communication is non-existent.

While it is normal to go silent during tense times with your mate, not talking ever is a no-no. If all you do is appear to pass each other like two ships passing in the night, then you might be with your mate out of comfort and familiarity.

3. You constantly break up.

If your first resort to solving a relationship issue is to breakup with your significant other all of the time, then you’re in deep trouble in my opinion. Ending a relationship not only weakens the the connection, but reinforces the notion that your mate is not invested in your union. If breaking up becomes an endless cycles, you will undoubtedly begin to wonder if you’re with the right person.