Lincoln Anthony Blades

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Ladies: PLEASE Stop Being So Faithful Before Commitment

When it comes to relationship advice articles, there’s nothing worse than those damn, “Fifty’leven Ways…

No, He Does Not Have A Fear of Commitment

In the past three weeks, I've seen one close friend and two associates – all men…

#AllLivesMatter is Officially a Date Topic

Because I often write about culture, racial inequality and systemic injustice, people will email or DM me articles, tweets,…

[Ladies] It’s Not YOUR Job to Make Him A Better Man

Several weeks ago, a video clip of a man crying at his wedding as his beautiful…

Black Superwomen Don’t Intimidate Me, They Scare Me

“Men are just intimidated by strong women.” I’ve heard that overly-generalized statement from far too…

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Fathers Do Not Babysit

To have eight godchildren in today’s society is to know a multitude of different family…

Dating While ‘Woke,’ Scan For All Signs of Hotep

In 1998, I experienced my “woke moment.” On a 5-hour flight between Toronto and Bridgetown, I found myself stuck…

Why the Term ‘Dating Down’ is Irrelevant

Dating Down: to enter into a relationship with someone with a much lower income, less…

Dear Black Women: Don’t Fall in Love With My Potential

Every single day, in a world filled with social media relationship experts attempting to tackle…

Extended Engagements Are TRULY None of Your Business

If you have any type of common sense, you should know good and well that…