This is your Superpower Love and Life Strategist Deya Direct, and I am so excited to be partnering with during their 28 Days of Love campaign!  Welcome to 5 Superpower Tools to Love Ggain!  This is your fifth and final Tool.  Tool #5 is Be Deliberate 

Be Deliberate and Redirect Your Actions if need be.  This is all about being intentional and going after what you really want–or at the very least, positioning yourself accordingly.  Now, that does not mean you have to be aggressive, but you can be more assertive.  You can show up, start a conversation and smile a lot!  Did you know researchers have found that one smile can provide the same level of brain stimulation as up to 2,000 chocolate bars? 

Being deliberate may require you to get out of your comfort zone and go meet people.  Why not?  Especially if you’ve already mastered being home alone. Growth personally or professionally require us to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.  No one will know how great you are unless you show them!  And if you need some help working through this process find me at It’s been great connecting with you for 28 days of Ebony’s Love.  Keep tuning in to 

Love and life coach Deya Smith-Taylor, aka Deya Direct, is a best-selling author. Her most recent book is Soft Is the New Power: Embracing Your Feminine Edge to Win in Love & Life. Learn more at, and follow her on Instagram & Twitter @Deyadirect.