Kirk Frost isn’t your pick for “husband of the year.” He’s been immersed in a series of cheating scandals and may even have a child on the way.

But the Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta star, who is married to musician Rasheeda, posted a touching message on Instagram to his 35-year-old wife on her birthday Thursday.

“Happy birthday @rasheedadabosschick,” he wrote. “Wishing you nothing but the best…love ya enjoy your day #bdaylove #bestfriends #positiveenergyonly.”

This was nice and all, but Kirk Frost may have to do a little more to make up for what he’s put his wife through.