Auntie Angel

Angel’s Erotic Solutions Builds Sexual Empire [INTERVIEW]

Sexpert Glamazon Tyomi talks with Erotic Solutions’ Auntie Angel about sexual confidence and sexy entrepreneurial endeavors

by Glamazon Tyomi, December 17, 2014

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Auntie Angel

The world is filled with many teachers, each with their own style of bringing information to the masses. And when it comes to the art of sexual expression, you’ll never find teachers as colorful as those who venture into this field. The Internet has been known to create overnight stars thanks to viral videos reaching millions of eyes across the globe, and for intimacy coach and fellatio expert Angel—of Angel’s Erotic Solutions—the web has been nothing but supportive of her sex education endeavors.

Born Denise Walker (originally dubbed “Auntie Angel” by WorldStarHipHop), this Chicago native has made a name for herself over the past 10 years by teaching women how to properly pleasure a man using their mouths alone. Her creative and signature “grapefruit trick,” taught on her Angel’s Fellatio Secrets DVD, has gained attention of over five million viewers alone thanks to the WSHH platform. It’s also landed her features in Cosmopolitan and on The Howard Stern Show, The Mo’Nique Show and Playboy Radio.  



Angel is one of the few Black female voices within sexuality being embraced and spotlighted, and has no plans of slowing down. EBONY had a sit-down with Angel to discuss her budding intimacy empire, sexual confidence, and how she got started in the business of fellatio instruction.

On How Angel Was Created

Beyoncé isn’t the only woman with an alter ego. Sexy entrepreneur Denise Walker created Angel many years prior to beginning her intimacy coaching business, all thanks to the encouragement of a lover and her close friends.

“I was dating a guy at the time that I was very attracted to, and our sex life was bomb,” she says. “But I had never gone down on him before. One day he was very vocal about wanting me to pleasure him in this way, and I began, with little to no response. You know women—if we don’t get a response sexually, we are going to keep trying until we do.

“So as I practiced and tried new things, he began to give me better responses. One day I went crazy, and he told me to keep doing what I’m doing. That’s when I began to write down all of the things I was doing so I would know for later. Once my technique was developed, I started telling my friends about what I knew how to do, and they encouraged me to teach classes.” And just like that, Auntie Angel was born.

Angel’s Views on Fellatio

“Prior to teaching, I never thought fellatio was an attractive thing to do,” Angel says. “But my attraction to my then partner encouraged me to practice to learn how to pleasure him. Men aren’t as vocal about their sexual pleasures, so when I began to experiment, I would ask him what he liked. That’s when I realized that communication during sex is the key.”

Angel believes that fellatio is a sexual tool that has the power to not only satisfy but also empower women. “Being able to master the art of fellatio gives women a sense of control over their men,” she says. “Women have told me that their marriages have been saved because of the techniques I have shown them.” Angel has successfully coached over 50,000 women in the art of fellatio while helping them build their sexual confidence.

How Angel Developed Her Technique

Angel’s fellatio technique is nothing short of impressive, as she’s able to promise the successful completion of the act within five minutes of beginning. She contributes the development of her skillset to the use of pornography and her desire to make women into “unforgettable sexual beasts.”

“Men predominately get their sex education from pornography, so I began to watch porn to see how the women in the films would perform fellatio,” Angel recollects. “Every man wants his porno fantasy to come to life, but my thought process was, ‘How can I make you unforgettable?’  You want him to remember you forever, so you can’t do what everyone else does.”

Angel has often been parodied because of the audible slurping sounds she makes while performing (it almost sounds like a slurping growl), but these sounds are also a signature to her technique. “Why not slurp?” she asks. “Women 90 percent of the time think inside of a box and don’t want to slurp because they don’t want to be seen as a freak. But men want their women to be freaks in the bedroom for them. Don’t do what everyone else does. Start from 10 and work your way down to one. Experiment and have fun.”

Angel on Becoming a Fellatio/Intimacy Expert

Before divining into the sex education field, Angel was an accomplished nail technician who had no reservations about sharing her views about sexuality. Once her skills developed, her teaching journey began with her inner circle of friends. “I am an unselfish ‘di*k connoisseur.’ I wanted women to know everything that I know, so I just started sharing with them all of what I would do in the bedroom,” she says.

“We grabbed some dildos and I started to show them my tricks. They would come back to me and say, ‘OMG, I got a new house, I got a new car, he asked to marry me…’ because of what I was teaching them! Then I started studying and really learning the anatomy and started sharing that as well.”

How Women Can Develop Sexual Confidence

Many women shy away from attempting to perform fellatio because of a lack of confidence, but Angel seeks to build women’s self-assurance and knowledge in her classes. “During sex, we get into our heads and we aren’t always sure about if our partners like what we have to offer,” says Angel. “If I can take half of that away and teach women how to communicate with their partners, we have succeeded at what we need to do sexually. If you can get a man to open up sexually, he will pretty much talk about anything after that.”

Angel not only teaches women how to perform fellatio, but she gives them advice on how to create fantasies, how to feel sexy, and how to become empowered in the bedroom by sharing her own stories of triumph. “It builds women’s confidence just attending my classes, because if she knows how it feels to him, it puts her in more control in the bedroom.”

Angel’s Top 5 Tips on How to Give Great Fellatio

1. “Fresh breath is number one. Brushing your teeth before performing and using a strong mouthwash will not help you produce more saliva, but it will give his penis a minty feeling.”

2. “Wetness is second. The wetter the better. I encourage gagging to produce more saliva, so make sure to never give head on a full stomach. I always tell women, ‘Don’t give him head after going to an expensive restaurant.’ Do something more low-key like going to the movies or bowling and then give it to him!”

3. “Confidence is third. Many women lack confidence because they don’t know what to do, but you must fake it until you make it. Go wild and try anything. You never know what he may like.”

4. “Educate yourself. We often don’t know our own bodies, so it’s a given that women don’t know a man’s body. Learn his anatomy. It makes you more empowered in the bed to know his spots.”

5. “Try anything. I have over 50 techniques. The penis is like a muscle and has a memory, so if you do the same thing, his penis will remember. You must suck like you play chess. Don’t let your opponent know your next move. Watch porn and do the opposite of what she is doing and do it better. Don’t forget the sound effects!”

How to Become a Sexy Entrepreneur

Many women across the globe have the desire to be sexy and teach other women how to improve their sex lives; Angel encourages them to do so by first being true to themselves. “I actually talked to God first and I had to figure out what could I do in the field of sexuality and still go to sleep at night,” she admits.

“Be true to you and figure out your strong points and weaknesses. I’m not the best businesswoman, but I have a manager because I can be lazy sometimes. If you aren’t a great speaker, be a writer. It’s a great thing to be a writer. Everyone has a story to tell. Choose your platform where you fit best.

“I knew what I liked; my friends encouraged me and that ignited men. I love what I do. I can’t imagine doing anything else. I believe God put me here to do this—not just to teach women how to suck, but how to take control of their sex lives.”

Many women have chosen to take what Angel has done and make it their own, which she encourages. “I love the fact that people want to teach, but take what I’ve done and expound on it. Add sex positions to your class or something different. Also, do these things to make sure they work.”

As a sexpert, Angel and I have so much in common, but it’s our love for sexuality that binds us together. “Our purpose is to educate and have fun at the same time,” she says. “I am going to do it by any means that I can. I have DVDs, I’m an author, and I’m working on a reality show because I want to have a larger platform to speak the truth on television. It’s a beautiful thing to see sexy, beautiful, educated Black women speaking about sexuality openly and freely.”

Amen to that Auntie Angel.

To find out more about Angel and her intimacy coaching, visit angelseroticsolutions.com.

Glamazon Tyomi is a freelance writer, model and sex educator with a deeply rooted passion for spreading the message of sex positivity and encouraging the masses to embrace their sexuality. Her website, www.glamerotica101.com, reaches internationally as a source for advice and information for the sexually active/curious. Follow her on Twitter at @glamazontyomi.





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