DIRECTIONS: Complete the quiz for your gender. Using the 1-to-5 scale, circle the number that describes your feelings for your mate (column 1), with 1 being “not at all true” and 5 being “definitely true.” Circle the number that describes how much you “feel” that particular song (column 2), with 1 being “never heard it” and 5 being ,“That is my jaaaaam!” Total your answers and see where you rate below.

Ladies First!

THE MOOD

There’s no other man for me.

1 2 3 4 5

This feels so right, it can’t be wrong.

1 2 3 4 5

He’s like a drug, and I’m hooked on his love!

1 2 3 4 5

This time around, love doesn’t hurt.

1 2 3 4 5

He’s such an amazing love, maybe the best I’ve had.

1 2 3 4 5

We’re in a good place.

1 2 3 4 5

He’s everything I need.

1 2 3 4 5

I don’t want to share him with anybody—even for a minute.

1 2 3 4 5

I don’t know if it’s love or lust—and I don’t care!

1 2 3 4 5

There’s nothing I wouldn’t do for him.

1 2 3 4 5

MUSIC (TITLE/ARTIST)

“My Guy”/Mary Wells

1 2 3 4 5

“Unthinkable”/Alicia Keys featuring Drake

1 2 3 4 5

“Obsession”/ Kelly Rowland

1 2 3 4 5

“All the Man That I Need”/ Whitney Houston

1 2 3 4 5

“Love to Love You Baby”/ Donna Summer

1 2 3 4 5

“Love on Top”/Beyoncé

1 2 3 4 5

“Dangerously in Love”/ Beyoncé

1 2 3 4 5

“Jealous”/Faith Evans

1 2 3 4 5

“I Feel for You”/Chaka Khan

1 2 3 4 5

“For You I Will”/Monica

1 2 3 4 5

Now, It's the Guys' Turn

There’s nobody else like her.

1 2 3 4 5

I’ll do anything to satisfy her—mind, body and soul.

1 2 3 4 5

She makes me a better man, and I like it.

1 2 3 4 5

I’m done playing games.

1 2 3 4 5

Whatever she wants, I’m down with that.

1 2 3 4 5

We’ll always be there for each other.

1 2 3 4 5

Our love is forever.

1 2 3 4 5

I don’t deserve her but I’m glad she’s mine.

1 2 3 4 5

I love it when she’s kinky!

1 2 3 4 5

With her I know it’s the real thing.

1 2 3 4 5

MUSIC (TITLE/ARTIST)

“My Girl”/ The Temptations

1 2 3 4 5

“I’ll Make Love to You”/Boyz II Men

1 2 3 4 5

“Without You”/ David Guetta featuring Usher

1 2 3 4 5

“I Need Love”/LL Cool J

1 2 3 4 5

“Make You Happy”/ Musiq Soulchild

1 2 3 4 5

“Got Your Back”/T.I.

1 2 3 4 5

“Real Love”/Eric Benet

1 2 3 4 5

“When a Woman Loves”/

R. Kelly

1 2 3 4 5

“Super Freak”/Rick James

1 2 3 4 5

“Sex Ain’t Better Than

Love”/Trey Songz

1 2 3 4 5

Total Score: ________

(If you did this right, it will be between 20 and 100)

90–100 points Crazy in Love

51–89 points We’re in This Love Together

36–50 points You’ve Lost That Lovin’ Feelin

20–35 points Complicated

Read more in the June 2012 issue of EBONY Magazine on page 89.