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OUT OF ORDER:Signs You Are NOT Ready for a Relationship

For many of us, dating is a recreational activity.…a sport or a game, like the…

Once a Cheater,Always a Cheater?

Sometimes it dawns on you slowly. A suspicion that begins as a faint as a…

How Soon is Too Soon for Sex?

Sex.  Men want it…and yes, women want it too.  But the reality is that you…

Get Down With PPP: the Psychopath Prevention Program

For most of us, the term ‘psychopath’ brings to mind an image of a serial…

Marriage IS Dead

Marriage, in the “traditional” sense, is dead. It died long before Kim Kardashian’s 72 days…

Dear Sil Lai: “I’m Scared of Marriage”

Dear Sil Lai: I’m a twenty year old man dating an 18 year old woman. …

Disappearing Acts: Inside the Mind of a Relationship Magician

Of all the maladies that afflict our relationships, commitment-phobia, or the fear of commitment is…

Open Marriage? Negro, Please!

The media has been burning up on the topic of “open marriage” ever since Marianne…

REAL Real Love

Let’s face it: relationships are hard. Anyone who tells you otherwise has never been in…